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Kyai-santri in a system called pesantren, has a unique relationship which is formed from the process of continuous interaction in teaching-learning process and in daily life. In this relation, kyai and santri generally keep using interpersonal communication as the main choice in interaction. This paper aims to explore the interpersonal communication between kyai and santri in modern pesantren in Tasikmalaya by using Watzlawick's interactional view approach. The method used is qualitative descriptive with data retrieval technique namely literature study, observation and interview. The research found that, kyai and santri cannot not do communication: both verbal and non verbal; both kyai and santri not only communicate the content but also have a unique way of building relationships; message delivery type is symmetrical with dominated by kyai; and there are many unwritten communication rules of santri-kyai showing the santri's respect for their kyai.
Keyword :Kyai, Santri, pesantren, interpersonal communication, interactional view
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References
- Buku:
- Dhofier, Zamakhsyari (2005). Tradisi Pesantren. Bandung: Mizan
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- http://www.colorado.edu/communication/metadiscourses/Theory/watzlawic/
- http://www.tasikmalayakota.go.id.
References
Buku:
Dhofier, Zamakhsyari (2005). Tradisi Pesantren. Bandung: Mizan
Griffin, E.M. (2006). A First Look At Communication Theory. Singapore: McGraw-Hill
Harits, Busyairi (2010). Islam NU, Pengawal Tradisi Sunni Indonesia. Surabaya: Penerbit Khalista
Luthfiani, Fia Silfia (2008). Hubungan Antara Motivasi Berprestasi dengan Kualitas Attachment dengan Ibu Pada Santri Pondok Modern Tingkat Pertama di Kota-Kabupaten Tasikmalaya
Mulyana, Deddy (2007). Ilmu Komunikasi, Suatu Pengantar. Bandung : Remaja Rosda Karya
Muzadi, Hasyim (1999). Nahdlatul Ulama, di Tengah Agenda Persoalan Bangsa. Jakarta : Logos
Pearson et al (2003). Human Communication. Singapore: McGraw-Hill
Rakhmat, Jalaluddin (2001). Metode Penelitian Komunikasi. Bandung : Remaja Rosda Karya
Rakhmat, Jalaluddin (2008). Psikologi Komunikasi. Bandung : Remaja Rosda Karya
Thoha Zainal Arifin (2003). Runtuhnya Singgasana Kiai NU, Pesantren dan Kekuasaan: Pencarian Tak Kunjung usai. Yogyakarta: Kutub
West, Richard & Turner, Lynn.H. (2010). Introducing Communication Theory, Analysis and Application. Singapore: McGraw-Hill
Wood Julia T. (2010). Interpersonal Communication, Everyday Encounters (6th eds.). USA: Wadsworth Cengage Learning
Zarnuji, Syaikh (2007), Terjemah Ta’lim Muta’lim oleh Ali As’ad. Yogyakarta: Menara Kudus
Internet
Fatkhuri, 2008, Menakar Hubungan Kyai-Santri.http://citizennews.suaramerdeka.com
http://www.colorado.edu/communication/metadiscourses/Theory/watzlawic/